We are finally head long into the adoption process!
We have had one home study visit and have the next two
scheduled. I have adoption paperwork all
over my desk and all over my computer. I
have a giant 3 ring binder tabbed and ready to try to keep everything
organized. I have checklists for my
checklists. We are so excited to be
making head way.
At the same time, we are right now in Orlando, Florida. Matt started a new job in March and they told
him pretty quickly they wanted him to attend the TechEd Conference in Orlando
in June. We talked about how hard it
would be for him to go to Orlando and leave us home. Then we started talking about what an
opportunity it was to take the girls on a great vacation. That’s where our conversations about the
whole idea got complicated. You see,
we’ve been trying to save money to finance the adoption. I have been working a
part time job to help with money for the adoption. We have received gifts from others to help
finance the adoption. Knowing this, is
it right to go on a vacation?
We talked about it, thought about it, prayed about it. Here was our conclusion…we have two awesome
daughters who have already made some sacrifices. One - we have traveled very little since
returning from China in 2005. Two –
money hasn’t flowed their way very freely lately. There will be sacrifices in the future that
will outweigh those. We have requested a
special needs child. He will most likely
need surgery, physical therapy, or some other kinds of special medical
attention. This means time and money of
the parents flowing that direction. A
new child in the family is always an adjustment, but one who speaks another
language and has no idea who you are or what’s going on exactly is huge. Our conclusion – this trip is a great gift to
give our girls.
So, in conclusion of the vacation rant, Matt’s company is
financing a good chunk of this “vacation” for the girls. Since he will be attending the conference,
they are paying our driving mileage, our hotel, and Matt’s food. We would not even have considered this
otherwise. I don’t think I’m justifying
this. I think it’s taking advantage of
an opportunity to invest some time and money into our girls before things go a
little crazy for a while. I certainly
hope that those of you who have invested in our upcoming adoption will
understand. I also pray that you know
how much you are appreciated. We don’t
take anyone’s contribution lightly.
For those of you who have prayed us to this point in the
adoption process, thank you and please keep praying.
We are in the fast lane and need God’s protection and provision in so
many ways. I worked on adoption paperwork in the car on the way down and have more I can do on the way home!
Love and thanks, Martha
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